Having only experienced a deal of difficulty that I personally have been through growing up, I hadn’t gained a perspective of how hard life can be for some people. This sometimes caused me to blow things out of proportion and over react. Even if it was something as little as not getting what ever the new trend is, or the job where I wanted to work hadn’t called me back, I would dwell on it.
Because it seemed like a big deal to me. Many times, my grandmother told me to stay positive and work or try harder. To look at the bright side of things. Or simply just let it go. I would usually get frustrated by things like these. It took me a long time to realize that she wasn’t just saying those things because she’s my grandmother.
She was trying to show me the better way of living life. By staying positive and eliminating the negativity in my life that may weigh me down. Why waste my time worrying about these things, when I could be spending it doing something that I actually want to be doing? Because of this realization, I believe in positivity. One of the biggest factors in the way your life plays out, are the people you come in contact with. There will always be negative people in life and there’s nothing you can do about that. They will always just be there, spreading their negative energy towards you and other people. When you can realize that there’s someone or something bringing you down, and preventing you from living the way you want to be living, you’ll realize that they aren’t worth worrying about. Surround yourself with the people who make you a better you.
By doing this in my own life, I have been able to envision my priorities more clearly. To attain more goals because of the lack of negativity distracting me from what I want. When you block out those things that don’t really matter, you’ll have a lot more time and energy to invest in the things that you want to accomplish. Positivity is the foundation of an enjoyable life. The more positivity you attain, The happier you become.
The more happiness you hold, the better quality of life you will live. Acquiring positivity is a fundamental factor of obtaining the highest quality of life possible. If everyone only focused on the things that made their lives hard, and the people they didn’t like, life would be nothing but a mass of circulating negativity. Society, putting out negative attitudes and opinions, expressed through the media, it is so easy to get caught up in all these things that we think matter. When in reality, they don’t. By letting these things go, and putting your time and effort into things you’re passionate about, you will be able to reach for higher goals.
And watch these goals being met with ease. When you can finally learn to walk through life with a smile, and just keep moving on without hesitation, life will be sure to reward you something great in return.